Joint and mutual will

joint [dʒɔint]

adj. 共同的，联合的;共享的;两院的;连带的，共同的; n. [解]关节;接合处;下流场所;一块烤肉（英式英语）; vt. 结合，联合;为…装上接头，使…有接缝;

and [ənd, ən,ænd]

conj. 和，与;而且;于是，然后;因此;

mutual ['mjutʃuəl]

adj. 共有的;共同的;相互的;彼此的;

mut = change,表示”改变”#词根助记：mut+ual→你变我也变→相互的

will [wɪl]

n. 愿意;意志（力）;[法]遗嘱; vt. 决心要;将（财产等）遗赠某人;用意志力驱使（某事发生）; vi. 愿意， 希望， 想要; aux. 将，将会;会，要;

My car just got wrecked, it's not the happiest day of my life.

我的车刚坏掉了，今天真不好过。

But it's still raining today!

可今天还在下雨。

Undivided attention is another sign of respect. You may have noticed that very few people listen with complete attention. Most people half-listen, and if you ask them to repeat what you have just said, they cannot. They may appear to be listening, but i

“专一”是尊重对方的另一表现。你也许察觉到很少有人一心一意地听别人讲话。多数人只是半心半意地听。如果你请他们复述你刚才说过的话，他们是不可能复述出来的。他们可能看上去是在听着，但是事实上有许多事情在他们头脑里转来转去--购物清单呀，要做的事呀，令人烦恼的事?2274